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So helpful and a constant source to use 
Hello Eunice, Thank you so much for this wonderful website. I first stumbled across this site last year, when a friend told me how helpful it had been …

This Website is Wonderful 
Hi Eunice! I just found this website about a week ago.. I find it rather unfortunate that I found this website so late while it has been up for years. …

U set very good standards..  
Hi I started reading your pages long time back and did start adopting certain things(i wish i could adopt all) gradually. It was and is a gradual process …

On becoming an elegant woman 
Eunice, I am enjoying your site!!! Most of all I am learning, learning, learning. Which is so good as I am a teacher. I find myself spending more time …

Better Relationships With Others 
Hi Eunice My name is Anne from Australia and I first stumbled across your website whilst searching "Personal Grooming" on Google. I just wanted to email …

The Beautiful World  
Before, I used to concentrate on my job, my studies and my home. I ignored my self.After I read your web site and your books, my eyes opened to some thing …

Being 41 and not giving up on elegance, grace and self love no matter what. 
I'm a 41 year old mother of two who has just spent the last 16 years as a police officer. Not a very elegant or graceful job. I resigned after suffering …

Trying to become elegant through all my self esteem struggles 
Thanks so much Eunice for this blog.I found this blog at a time of my life when i needed to.Ive been struggling with esteem problems since when i was 14.Here …

Thanks a lot! 
I just came across this site, and am very glad I did. A few months ago, I came across another site about elegance written by a woman who believed strongly …

Thank you!! 
I've only recently stumbled across your website, and by accident I have to admit. I was looking for help on a self makeover. I let my curly blonde hair …

From Anger to Elegance 
Thank you for this site, I have always admired elegant people, not just women. I desire to change myself into an elegant woman and discontinue being an …

Thank you for helping me find a balance between "lady" and "leader." 
Dear Eunice, I am still rather new to this website, but i would like to thank you very much for changing the way I look at life in the few brief weeks …

Dear Eunice, I like your site so much. I'm learning alot from it.Thank you very much for sharing us your knowledge.

What matters most to me.. 
Hello, After just joining Elegant Woman, I'm looking forward be with you, and hoping that I can contribute something of worth. I learn my manners and …

Elegance Personified! Such an Inspiration to live by! 
Hi Eunice, I am so glad to come across your website and read all wonderful writings on "elegance." It answered so many profound questions that have …

I love this website. 
I like how you sum elegance up and then flesh it out in small but very actionable tasks. As I read, I thought about something my mother said - and it …

Excellent Content 
The content of this site is superb. I was so intrigued by the teachings. I continued to read and read. Thank you for assembling this wonderful site.

I am so grateful for your site. I have been looking for an enjoyable site where I could learn about manners, being a lady and so on. I am working on a …

Exactly what I've been looking for! 
Hello Eunice! I was raised by my mother and step father and they have always taught me to be very lady like. Last May I graduated from high school and …

Hi Eunice! First and foremost thank you for this amazing website. Keep it up. May God bless you because you are touching generations with the hard work …

Since having had the good fortune of coming across ElegantWoman.Org I have felt such a clarity of purpose fill my heart, gently overflowing into all aspects …

Hi Eunice, For as long as i can remember,i have always wanted to be an elegant woman in every sense and probrably even teach others how to be elegant. …

Exactly What I Was Looking For! 
Dear Eunice, Thank you for creating this site and for keeping it current. You are providing information I've never seen anywhere else that women desire …

Kisses from Argentina 
Hi Eunice I´m from Argentina, I live here but I grew up in USA (I miss USA a lot) and I was looking for a page that could bring me some information …

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Greetings from Brazil :)  
Hey, Eunice. My name is Quézia, and I am from Brazil. I've come across your website and I am really loving it. I want to thank you for all the awesome …

Teaching and Learning Elegance 
I would like to say thank you. You encourage me everytime I read something you write. I am also happy that you also include God. I like Princess Diana, …

Want To Change Myself 
Hi dear Eunice, I would like to thank you for giving us such valuable guidance which helps everyone to uplift their lives with so much confidence. …

Turning My Life Around! 
Dear Eunice I have been following your site for about 18 months, maybe more, and I wanted to let you know just how much my life has changed since reading …

I realized it is not too late for the year of rest! 
I only came across your web site and blog today, nearly the end of 2010; I've had a difficult year, and was searching for inspiration on the internet. …

The Elegant Woman I Want To Be 
Hello, I have been so enlightened by your website! Its inspiring and very sound advice. You seem like a lovely person. I am striving to be that …

One Year Later...A Much Better Life And I Met Someone! 
Dear Eunice, I am sending this e-mail because I want you to know how inspiring elegantwoman.org is to me. One year ago I was a quite different women …

Thank you for such a rare gem  
Dear Eunice Tan, I would just like to congratulate you on such a wonderful, tender and of course elegant site. Your words of wisdom are filled with …

Your articles are helping me to consistently mould myself into a woman of elegance.  
Hi Eunice, Your website has been such a blessing to me. I have always wanted that something special that my role model Khanyi Dhlomo has (see pic below. …

My treasure hunt ended here!! 
Thank you so much as your site is like a dream come true for me. I was looking on the internet for various things when I came across your site. It feels …

I thought elegance was out of reach for me. 
I was raised to be somewhat of a “militant feminist” -- trained by my parents to "compete" as “successfully” as possible in a "man's world." But... …

Discarded 90% of my wardrobe. Thank you so much! 
Hi Eunice, I want to thank you for the bottom of my heart for such an amazing website. It literally has changed my life and the way i see my self. I …

This is a Web Site Every Woman Should Visit! 
Eunice is a marvel in what she has done to restore elegance in our modern culture. She echoes everything I have to say about elegance. - Chloe …

I am addicted! 
Hi Eunice, can,t really remember how or when i came across your website, i am so glad i did as i am addicted to it. I go on it most days for inspiration, …

Probably the best articles I've read on Elegance.  
I am so glad I stumbled upon this website recently and since then, I have been visiting it over and over again every single day! I certainly find myself …

Truly inspired:) 
Hi Eunice, first and foremost thank you so much for creating this website. I am so inspired:)Just two days ago, I prayed so that I can find some helpful …

Love and Best Wishes from India 
Hi Eunice, I am Jayasree writing from India. I love your website and want to commend you for the fantastic job you are doing !! Congrats!! The more …

This Article Reminds Me of What you Teach! 
Hi Eunice, I just wanted to take a few moments to let you know that I purchased the Secrets of Elegance Ebook about a couple of weeks ago after having …

Secrets of Elegance Book  
Hi Eunice, thanks for replying, and thanks for the advice. I have sucessfully placed an order for the book, and am eagerly anticipating it,s arrival. Have …

Nice topic! 
I can relate to it, everything that has been said is happenin' to me. I am humbly materialistic, but in a good way, people sometimes misunderstand me. …

My Go-To site! Not rated yet
Every day after work, I sit and open up my tablet to your website. It is my direction to the elegant woman I want to become and I read and re-read all …

A thousand thank-yous for the care you put into this blog.  Not rated yet
Hello Eunice, thank you for maintaining this wonderful site with meticulous care and insightful information. I have spent far too many years of my life …

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Monicca Lebambo, South Africa

Thank you so very much for what you are doing. I just found out about your site when I was looking for grooming tips for my 14 yrs old daughter. I couldn't believe what I got. She is as fulfilled as I am. We love every tip you give and I just want to spend as much time reading your stuff as possible. As women, we need these kind of talks. It's never enough. Thank you again. You will definitely hear often from me.

Kim, France

Hi Eunice

I found your website through the SBI forums. Just wanted to let you know how much I truly enjoy it. Elegance has long fascinated me as an ideal and you put into words many things that have crossed my mind. Wishing you the very best of luck in your website venture.

Mwalimushi, Namibia

Hi Eunice, wow I really love your website. I went through all the pages. and will def come back for more when completed.

Audrey has always been my inspiration and I love being elegant although I at times turns into a tomboy. at this age perhaps "tom-man." I was looking and some of yo pics and comparing them with some of my own house pics. Its amazing the similarities. I also have a SBI Web; www.my-beautiful-namibia.com.

You can also see a photo of me and friends at: http://www.my-beautiful-namibia.com/role-of-women-during-the-liberation-struggle-of-namibia.html

Now that I found your website. It revived my feminine flame.

I will keep coming back to your site.

Emma, United Kingdom

Hi Eunice

I have just recently found your website and find it so inspiring. I have a fascination of the essence of elegance and chic and quite often surf the net for ideas on how I can improve. ... (-rest of her email can be found under Questions-)

Keep up the good work and thanks.

-----her second email----

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I am also working on my thought patterns, which historically have been I realize quite negative. I have saved your Top Tips page to my favorites and am trying to read them every day. I am hoping that over time I will automatically think elegantly and as you have said in your final paragraph, hopefully this will eventually become a natural process and so when I do fancy that extra glass of wine, I will become more Holly Golightly than Cruella Deville!

It is a continuous work in progress and your pages will continue to be of inspiration.

Ginette, SF Bay Area, United States

Beautiful site, Eunice! Wow - very well done. Classy and sophisticated, yet still fun and approachable.

May, Fife, Scotland

Hi Eunice

Gosh, your site looks amazing already - well done. You've obviously worked very hard.

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...I shall enjoy going back to your site and seeing how it develops.

Kind regards, May

Lynne, Bremerton

Your website is exquisite.

Your writing, your personality, your style - I couldn't stop reading it. I think I've quite literally clicked on every page you wrote ;)

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...the voice of your writing is so wonderful, the content so valuable, that the positive simply overwhelms the negative.

Catherine, Southport, near Liverpool, UK and Ripe San Ginesio, Le Marche, Italy

I love your site Eunice and I agree with everyone else - your style is wonderful. I felt as though I was talking to a friend - or someone who I'd like to be my friend.

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I'm bookmarking your site because I'd love to see how it develops. As a woman of "a certain age" I find it's not always easy to be elegant. Sad - but I love seeing how others do it! Very Happy

Good luck


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