A Valentine's Bride all dressed up but partner is not as dressed up.

by ALEXUS
(HOUSTON,TEXAS)

OK. Valentine's Day this year was our one year anniversary.
We both had been married before and are 50+.

We had dinner reservations at the same place last year when we were married. I had on a long red strapless gown to be married. The restaurant is very romantic and has a very talented piano player singer with a dance floor which we enjoyed.

I was all dressed up for the occasion with a sexy black velour dress and a jacket that had red and black like patton leather on it (sounds different, but stylist). He had black slacks, a black sports coat; but, when I saw the shirt hanging I asked him-You aren't going to wear that are you?

The shirt was a Polo golf shirt, white with horizonal black strips with snaps instead of buttons.

I know the world has gotton more casual; however, it is good to dress up for special occasions. This was a double occasion of our first anniversary and Valentine's day at a very upscale restaurant.

He insisted the shirt was dressy enough; I insisted he wear something else.

SO do you think it is in good taste (or appropriate) to wear a golf shirt with snaps (I think the snaps makes it even more casual. I told him, OK I will wear bermuda shorts) to an upscale restaurant for a double special occasion?