Secrets of Elegance

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Secrets of Elegance is an easy-to-read, step by step guide on the foundations of elegance. Discover the secrets of womanly poise and confidence in this book based on the observations and study of elegant women. Written in both a manual and workbook style, Secrets of Elegance enables anyone to learn the roots of elegance and to contrive her own elegant manner and style. Instead of focusing on etiquette like most books on elegance, the author suggests a purposeful direction on achieving and maintaining gracefulness and taste.

Who This Book Is For

If you wish to become more elegant but don't know where to start, this book is a good starter for you.

If you feel intimidated by a certain sort of person as well as the luxury and the finer things in life, here is a way to build a solid self-confidence where you can hold your head high in dignity and self-respect.

If you never had a heritage of being parented by well-brought-up parents, you can self-parent or parent your children through these methods.

If you are enjoy the way of living elegantly and becoming the woman you dream to be, here is a step-by-step approach to help you get there.

"Everyone who got to where they are had to begin where they were." - Richard Paul Evans

My Comments:

For this book, I overhauled everything that I've ever written on how to achieve elegance. I've questioned several times over, 'how to be elegant' at every angle.

I've also considered the time frame one takes to learn elegant ways (Eliza Doolittle, from 'My Fair Lady' took 6 weeks!). I pondered over the emails, tried to answer the most common questions. I test out theories as I tried to put myself into the shoes of others and sought out solutions. As those things finally panned out, I arrived at 'Secrets of Elegance' as my conclusion.

To make it easier, I broke them down into a step-by-step process.

I also don't believe in one form of elegance. Elegance can occur in so many personalized ways, as long as principles remain.

I believe anyone who grasps these principles can carve their own brand of elegance from there on. It is like teaching a man how to fish. You can't box 'elegance in' by rules but you can recognize it. Pedigree, well mannered and well brought up children are raised by these principles.

I tried my best to include the basics because I don't want anyone to get overwhelmed and discouraged! Take your time with it and approach it with a life long process in mind.

I hope this helps you in the way that the limitations of the web cannot.

Additional Details of the book

There are 119 pages in total.

The book is divided out into 10 steps with a few worksheets embedded between the pages.

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