The Dream of a Refined Womanhood

With blurred lines of society today, I write about my discovery of being a refined womanhood. Although we are all born with it intrinsically, it is a art that can be crafted and refined with knowledge.

I embrace being a woman. I embrace femininity. That does not mean pink and ruffles and flowers. It means I am all woman.

I wasn't like that always though. I grew up in a single-parent home and was once very confused with masculine and feminine traits. While I was never a tomboy, I had some negative attitudes or was just rather uninformed. Womanhood - I would define as qualities that are natural and characteristic of being a woman.

I believe all woman are entitled to certain knowledge. Knowledge that brings out their greatest potentials, the traits that make great men fall in love with, to have great dating relationships leading to marriage and having a great family after that.

I believe women should have the RIGHTS to this because it was designed by God Himself, that way. Gone were the days that had systems of passing this wealth of knowledge to their daughters, students. We have forgone them in exchange for other gains.

Though it is natural, many times modern society does not value or applaud it, manipulating us to be in want. I believe there is a call right now to all women out there, to return to our feminine roots. When we become the finest woman, we draw out the real men.

I believe all women have the knowledge rights to:

1) feel beautiful, and know how to enhance their own beauty

2) learn to have an elegant self confidence

3) date elegantly, find true love and marry a gentleman

4) be highly skilled in the feminine arts

5) have a happy family at every stage of her life

6) be comfortable wonderfully in a home

7) be free to express feminine traits like fear of silly things that warm a man's heart, or indulge in their natural behaviours of being caring, loving and nurturing

8) be indulged by gentlemanly behaviour such as carrying of their heavy books, repairing the sink, drilling holes into the walls and be treated like a queen by a fine man

9) be protected, guarded, loved

10) learn how to draw out tender feelings of a man and have him be in love with you and you in him forever 11) learn to understand a man, support him to his finest, appreciate him, most of all, admire him.

12) know what is an ideal woman, from a male's perspective

13) feel confident being in her relationship/marriage and how to have the best one on earth

14) knowledge in nurturing and bringing up her children.

15) to be a fine and gracious woman, bring inspiration to all around her!

I am in the midst of writing insights and secrets about

1) How to be elegant

2) How to be a lady

3) How to be lovely

4) Elegant dating

5) Preparing for your marriage (which is more important than the wedding).

6) Being a great wife and partner in life (online course)

7) A Wonderful Marriage: A great marriage is the closest thing to heaven and the bad one, well you can imagine.

8) An ideal woman from a Male's perspective

9) Drawing out your natural innate traits and enjoying your femininity. What is your Elegant Aspiration? Join the Elegant Woman Community! Check out Elegant Woman Forums.

God Give Us Women

God give us women
Women of such mold
Preferring ever honor unto gold
Women who wear their beauty as a flower,
Whose homey virtues are their richest dower.

Say you, "The age needs men!"
I say again, "God give us women
Lest we lack true men."

Author Unknown